Post updated July 2025.
Toilet training is a big step for toddlers, and for parents too! If you're starting to wonder whether your little one is ready, you're not alone. At Milestones Early Learning, we’re here to support your child’s journey with care, encouragement, and expert guidance every step of the way.
We understand that no two children are alike, and there’s no one-size-fits-all timeline. Some children are ready at two, others closer to three (or even later). What matters most is recognising the signs of readiness and approaching the process with patience and positivity, at home and at child care.
Is My Child Ready? Signs to Look For
Rather than focusing on age, our educators recommend tuning into developmental cues that suggest your toddler might be ready to start toilet training. These signs can include:
- Staying dry for longer stretches during the day
- Showing interest in what happens in the bathroom
- Using words or gestures to indicate they need to go
- Disliking a wet or dirty nappy
- Pulling pants up or down with minimal help
- Understanding simple directions like “Let’s sit on the toilet!”
Miss Zahra, a toddler educator at Milestones, shares:
“The cues we see most are toddlers staying dry for longer, becoming more aware of when they’re wet, showing interest in flushing or sitting on the toilet, and even wanting to remove their own nappy. These are all signs they’re gaining awareness of their body, and with encouragement, they’ll soon be ready to give it a go!”
Our teams work closely with families to share observations and follow your routine. We know it works best when we’re on the same page.
What to Expect (the Ups, the Downs, and the Messy Middles)
Toilet training isn't always a straight line, it can take weeks or even months, with a few false starts, regressions, and very proud moments along the way. That’s completely normal.
Here’s what many parents experience:
- The false start: You try for a few days, but your toddler isn’t quite ready. That’s okay! Take a break and try again later.
- The power struggle: Your child says “no” just because they can. It’s all part of their growing independence.
- The regression: Even after early success, your child might have accidents during big transitions (like moving rooms or becoming a big sibling) or illness.
The best thing you can do is keep it consistent, relaxed, and low-pressure. Celebrate every small win, and know that accidents are simply part of learning.
How Milestones Supports Toilet Training
We’re here to make the transition as smooth as possible for your child (and you!). Here's how we help:
- Child-friendly bathrooms and toilets are easily accessible in our toddler rooms.
- Our educators offer gentle reminders to try the toilet throughout the day, especially after meals or rest time.
- We follow your home routine, whether you're just beginning or in the thick of training.
- Accidents are handled with care and no fuss. We always focus on your child’s confidence and comfort.
- We use toileting moments as part of our Completely Connected approach, building self-care skills and emotional confidence during everyday routines.
“Routine moments like toileting are packed with learning,” says Jola Sung, Senior Education Advisor at Affinity Education Group. “They help children build self-awareness, language, and independence, all while being nurtured with warmth and encouragement.”
Parent Tips to Build Confidence at Home
To help create consistency and reduce stress, here are some tips you can try at home:
- Start slowly: Let your child explore the potty or toilet without pressure. Even sitting on it with clothes on is a great first step.
- Watch their rhythm: Track when your child usually needs to go - this helps build a routine.
- Celebrate the small stuff: Use verbal praise, stickers, or a fun toilet chart to keep it positive.
- Dress for success: Easy-up pants help toddlers feel more independent and avoid frustrating accidents.
- Stay calm about accidents: Gently clean up and move on. Toddlers learn best when they feel safe and supported.
FAQs We Often Hear from Parents
Every child is different. Some pick it up in a few weeks; others take months. The key is patience and consistency.
Whatever works for your child! Many start with a potty and transition to a toilet with a step stool and seat insert.
Yes, just let us know your plan, and we’ll gradually align routines to help your child feel confident across both settings.
A few changes of clothes and a positive attitude go a long way. Your child’s educators will let you know what else to bring.
You’ve Got This (And We’re With You)
Toilet training can feel like a big leap, but it’s also an exciting step toward independence for your little one. Remember, you’re not doing this alone. Our educators are here to support you with warm, consistent care and expert insights along the way.
Have questions or want to chat about your child’s readiness? Reach out to your centre team, we’re always happy to help.